Premature ejaculation means lack of control on ejaculatory system. “Someone who ejaculates before penetration or within few minutes of penetration is suffering from premature ejaculation”.
In its wider definitions premature ejaculation means “Someone who ejaculates before his partner experience orgasm is suffering from premature ejaculation.”
What are the causes of Premature ejaculation?
- One of the main causes of premature ejaculation is masturbation in wrong manner. The main aim of masturbation is to jerk out the sperm as soon as possible so that you could feel intense tingling pleasure at the base of your penis to release the sexual tension.
- The other cause for premature ejaculation is nature itself. Naturally every male is premature ejaculator. Haven’t you seen horses, loins and oxens etc. while making sex? Even the healthiest Animal ejaculates within few minutes. Same is true with us ———–human males. Nature wants us to spill sperms as soon as possible so that it could start making our successor human beings. However if we humans will keep on following faulty nature, we may ruin our lives.
- You can ejaculate prematurely if you get overwhelmed by sexual feelings and extreme wave of sexual arousal. Usually, young men get too much excited because extreme sexual energy and artlessness to control imposing urge to ejaculate. If ejaculation keeps on repeatedly occurring in this fashion, it becomes hardened response of your body and brain.
- “Not-good-first-sexual-experience” may lead to premature ejaculation. First sexual encounter has to be very pleasant, sustained and prolonged; otherwise possibility of your becoming remains pretty high. Your body and brain can start similar response all of your next sexual encounters as was in your first encounter. That is why masters always recommend that your first sexual experience should not be with any whore or hooker. She may make you come quicker and can pass a nasty comment on your sexual weakness that may leave very adverse effects on your sexual life to come.
- If the head of your penis (glans) becomes sensitive, you may ejaculate prematurely.
- Sexual artlessness is another cause of premature ejaculation.
- Vaginal tightness is also one the causes of premature ejaculation.
- Hypersensitivity.
- Alcoholism.
- Anxiety.
There are lots of “self-proclaimed” cures available in market but almost all of these systems are of temporary relief only. However these products are unnatural ways of controlling premature ejaculation and have galore of side effects. Some of these methods are :
- Ejaculation control pills and capsules are “one-night” relief for premature ejaculation and do not cure the problem at all. The worst part is that these premature ejaculation pills and capsules are injurious to health. These pills and capsules have “brain-numbing” ingredients and the outcome is that you don’t enjoy true pleasure of making sex because major part of your brain remains sleepy.
- Desensitizing oils and creams are not different from ejaculation control pills as far as their side effects are concerned. These creams desensitize penis and thus help you last little longer than usual. But again you will not enjoy the sublime pleasure of sex. How can you when your main organ is desensitized? What is point of making sex when you can’t enjoy it. After effects of long term usage of desensitizing products are equal to those of pills and capsules. Frequent usage of desensitizing creams ultimately brings total impotence.
- Useless methods.
Masturbation before sex.
Many a sexperts suggest masturbating before making sex. What a crap! Your semen is vital fluid and you will be wasting it for nothing! It is a weakening activity and ultimately brings impotence. Don’t buy this advice.
Mind distraction.
Some experts advice to think of any gruesome scene in your mind to distract mind while you are making sex. This is totally insane. Sex is pleasure activity and in the middle you are thinking about the gory and grisly scenes. Without sublime pleasures, sex is just boring labor. And will you really last longer by doing all this? Answer is not at all. It will not make any difference
The great thing about human nature is its being prone to adaptation. That is why it is always easy to train our body and brain to get desired responses. When we do weight training or body building, our body senses it as “hard time”, so it starts preparing itself to deal with “hard time” by becoming muscular so that we could carry weights easily. That is why laborers have muscular and strong bodies.
On similar basis, you can train you body and brain to become resistant to ejaculatory flood. You also need to repair your impaired sexual system because of excessive masturbation in wrong manner. Download The most effective techniques to cure premature ejaculation.
